Saturday 25 October 2014

Being a Perfect Gentleman

Humans are like animals most particularly the men, they sometimes becomes ignorant in most cases. This types of men have the attributes of becoming a very abusive husband or partner. This is the type of husband that believes he knows everything. He is the unbending, self-involved and unyielding type. Nobody can neither correct nor counsel him.
In any relationship if one of the partner is an autocratic or corrosive husband, it is a guarantee that the relationship cannot live for a long period of time so women must be very careful in selecting our future partner without any haste.
According to the bible scripture in genesis 2: 22-24. And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. And Adam said, this is now bones of my bines, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
This entails to us that Adam was a man who loved Eve ( his partner ) they were together in the garden naked. They bore children together and nurtured their children together, here Adam behaved like a perfect gentleman who listens and obeyed the commandments of God. They lived together for many years which brought about the existence of everyone of us today.
A man has to be the one who needs to listen to his wife and help her. He must not be dictative and controlling and even if a fight brakes out among them that eventually happens. The man has to be the one to step out to show respect and avoid confrontations with his partner which could lead to the end of the relationship.
In every relationship, fights and arguments are bound to occur, they are inevitable but it is the duty of a man to take the responsibility of showing his wife love by being a perfect gentleman so that unity will reign among them.

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