LEARN HOW TO BE FRIENDLY WITH FRIENDS OF YOUR PARTNER

It is important to know that friends of your spouse are one the most important people you must take serious because they help to build your relationship so it is necessary that you hold on to his/her friends. You never can tell when your relationship will hit the rock 'brake up' so you must try not to pick friends for him or tell him/her that you don't like one in particular. He may have offended you or embarrassed you 'men are annoying sometimes' but with maturity you have to take the matter with sense by thinking how you can manoeuvre/separating yourself from him without disrespecting him.
He could eventually be the one to save your relationship in the near future so you must try to be very careful.
There are some women who like to select friends for their partners, these women are regarded as being dictators or commanding. If you are this kind of person, it will not help you at all. His close friends or best friends always knows what's best for him/her even if some could distract him/her from doing the right thing or are negatively affecting his/her life, you must pretend you like them.
However, if he didn't like them he wouldn't have them as his friends but if you think there's this particular friend of his/her that will destroy his/her life and your relationship then you must sit him down and advise him to move away from such person.
Be smart, be brave, and be attentive/ready to know who are his good friends and what is good for him, not picky but at least get to know his/her good and bad friends. They help sometimes to solve quarrels, arguments, and other issues found in all relationships.

HOW TO KEEP YOUR PARTNER IN A RELATIONSHIP

      Most women think that men naturally cheat, but when you try to sit for a moment,  think and research on the reasons men cheat, we will see that most times it is we ourselves that cause the down fall of our relationships.
       We must know that when you make your self too available in a relationship your partner can end up getting tired of the relationship. We women must try as much as possible to make our partner realise that we are one in a million that is; taking care of our partner. Make him know that we will always be there in the most crucial and difficult moments in their lives. Don't always start a relationship by asking your man to buy you phones, bags, dresses, shoes etc. It doesn't show the maturity in you and also it will show how dependable you will end up becoming to him, it shows how cheap or expensive you can be. Most men are  completely turned off by all these little things that you feel are the normal things a man should do or give in every relationship. We can ask of all these things when we are married but we should have limits according to the size of your husband's account, husbands too get frustrated because of money problems especially when they are out of jobs.
        We must know the type of dresses that fit us, in most cases religion has taken all the most fashionable women out of vogue and style. I am certainly not against any church disciplines but you must look a bit fashionable to your man, not dressing like a slut and like an old mama but look tasteful. Men love to see their wives beautiful.
       Respect your partner by accepting with his terms, this will make your relationship grow stronger. Control your temper when you are profusely angry about something when it has to do with your partner.
     Respect the values of your relationship, don't go around telling every body about the problems and every details of your relationship and what you are facing in your relationship. It will only make you look stupid, your partner will find out how childish you are and he will be forced to redraw from the relationship. Friends are not to be trusted when it comes to relationships, they can deceive and manipulate the entire story most especially female friends.