Tuesday 4 November 2014

BEING AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN PART 2

I have three questions to ask every woman in a relationship.
1) You are a socialite, so would you live your job and marry a man who would want to make you an house wife
2) You like shopping and buying expensive things, would you allow your new husband to make you his house wife
3) You like flashing things e.g traveling out of the country while you were unmarried but now you have married a man who would prefer to keep you as his house wife.
Any woman who says a man, her husband, her lover is ready to do all things ready down for her without any circumstance happening is just deceiving herself. Please don't get me wrong some men are prince charming. He is always there, supportive, he is willing to drop the cash whenever also there's nothing bad in becoming an house wife but remember what i said previously, what if his job starts crumbling whereby no more usual flow of money like before. You as a woman, you are educated or you come from a wealthy family who are ready to boost your career or business forward but because you got married you ended up depending on your husband for every thing. If things turns around unexpectedly you will be the guilty one, you had opportunity but it went out of hand just because of carelessness.
To my advice to every woman or house wife out there, always find some thing to do to support your family whether business or getting a job.
Our husbands are loving and supportive people so it is also our duties to be supportive too, to maintain the flow of the family income.
Maltreating sometimes derives or start from when your husband is frustrated or he is being bothered by you. So you need to make your husband happy.
Also you need to become a family financial expert. You must master the art of making money legitimately. You must also learn how to manage your family finance rightly. Know about budgeting savings, investment and by all means improve your financial intelligent. You must be hard working, strong and industrious. You must know the value of everything so that problems will not arise in the your relationship.

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