HOW TO KEEP YOUR PARTNER IN A RELATIONSHIP

      Most women think that men naturally cheat, but when you try to sit for a moment,  think and research on the reasons men cheat, we will see that most times it is we ourselves that cause the down fall of our relationships.
       We must know that when you make your self too available in a relationship your partner can end up getting tired of the relationship. We women must try as much as possible to make our partner realise that we are one in a million that is; taking care of our partner. Make him know that we will always be there in the most crucial and difficult moments in their lives. Don't always start a relationship by asking your man to buy you phones, bags, dresses, shoes etc. It doesn't show the maturity in you and also it will show how dependable you will end up becoming to him, it shows how cheap or expensive you can be. Most men are  completely turned off by all these little things that you feel are the normal things a man should do or give in every relationship. We can ask of all these things when we are married but we should have limits according to the size of your husband's account, husbands too get frustrated because of money problems especially when they are out of jobs.
        We must know the type of dresses that fit us, in most cases religion has taken all the most fashionable women out of vogue and style. I am certainly not against any church disciplines but you must look a bit fashionable to your man, not dressing like a slut and like an old mama but look tasteful. Men love to see their wives beautiful.
       Respect your partner by accepting with his terms, this will make your relationship grow stronger. Control your temper when you are profusely angry about something when it has to do with your partner.
     Respect the values of your relationship, don't go around telling every body about the problems and every details of your relationship and what you are facing in your relationship. It will only make you look stupid, your partner will find out how childish you are and he will be forced to redraw from the relationship. Friends are not to be trusted when it comes to relationships, they can deceive and manipulate the entire story most especially female friends.